you gotta meet people where they are. in the time and space they occupy and are comfortable in doing so.
without judgement or shame they have to enter whatever situations or circumstances they need to to elevate, at their rate. and they will elevate, maybe now or much later. this life, this time or the next.
in this mundane world, we live in a space that consists of polarities, so without students there is no teacher. no lessons without experiences. without dark, there’s no light, no sun without moon, air without water. as above, so below.